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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 29.06.2025 04:02

How does one succeed in life?

Does not procrastinate.

Do not set goals—set systems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

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What I need from you?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Procrastinates a lot.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

That's it for today.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

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Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Ask yourself:

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.